CHILD ABUSE~Inform, Educate, Empower

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Survivors of childhood sexual abuse experience an array of overwhelming and intense feelings. These may include feelings of fear, guilt, and shame. Abusers have been known to tell children that it is the fault of the child that they are abused, shifting the blame away from the abuser, where it belongs, and placing it on the child. Along with this, abusers may threaten or bribe the child into not speaking up; convincing the child that he or she will never be believed.The reaction of a survivor’s friends and family to the disclosure of the abuse also has the potential to trigger immense feelings of guilt, same and distrust, particularly if those individuals denied that the abuse was taking place, or chose to ignore it.

While each individual’s experiences and reactions are unique, there are some responses to child sexual abuse that are common to many survivors:

  • Sleep disturbances / disorders
    • Survivors may have trouble sleeping because of the trauma, anxiety or may directly be related to the experience they had as a child; children may be sexually abused in their own beds.
  • Lack of trust for anyone
    • Many survivors were betrayed by the very people they are dependent upon (family, teachers etc.) who cared for them, who insisted they loved them even while abusing them; learning to trust can be extremely difficult under these circumstances.
    • 93% of victims under the age of 18 know their attacker.ii
  • Flashbacks
    • Many survivors re-experience the sexual abuse as if it were occurring at that moment, usually accompanied by visual images of the abuse. These flashes of images are often triggered by an event, action, or even a smell that is reminiscent of the sexual abuse of the abuser.
  • Dissociation
    • Many survivors go through a process where the mind distances itself from the experience because it is too much for the psyche to process at the time. This loss of connection with thoughts, memories, feelings, actions or sense of identity, is a coping mechanism and may affect aspects of a survivor’s functioning.

“Support the fight to END CHILD ABUSE before another INNOCENT CHILD is taken!!”

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~Dedicated to my “MINI ME”~

http://www.loveourchildrenusa.org/reportingchildabuse.php

http://www.calgarycasa.com/

http://bivonacac.org/child-abuse-do-something

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2 thoughts on “CHILD ABUSE~Inform, Educate, Empower

  1. Hello my friend
    So true and the experiences of the child while abuse is happening and long after it stops. I am a survivor but that does not mean there are not issues, it’s how you deal with them. Honesty with ourself is a hard first step.
    Keep up the great work. You blog touches so many lives.
    Melinda

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    • Thank you so much for your kind words Melinda. I only post topics that are near and dear to my heart for one reason or another. The more support we give each other the better! 😉

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