End the negativity in your life

You don’t ever have to feel guilty about removing toxic people from your life. It doesn’t matter whether someone is a relative, romantic interest, employer, childhood friend or new acquaintance- You don’t have to make room for people who cause you pain or make you feel small. It’s one thing if a person owns up to their behavior and makes an effort to change. But if a person disregards your feelings,ignores your boundaries, and “continues” to treat you in a harmful way, they have to go.

Signs You’re Surrounded by a Toxic Person

~You’re emotionally affected by their drama

~You dread (or fear) being around them

~You’re exhausted or you feel angry while you’re with them or after your interaction

~You feel bad or ashamed about yourself

~You’re stuck in a cycle of trying to rescue, fix or care for them.          

~The other person doesn’t respect the word “No” as a complete sentence

~When you’re with them, you feel like you’re “walking on eggshells”

~You ignore your own values

~You emotionally “check out”

~You feel like you’re being controlled, or you’re being overly controlling.

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6 thoughts on “End the negativity in your life

  1. Thank you for this!! 🙂 It was a much needed reminder for me now 🙂

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  2. Well said my friend! Thank you.

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  3. So true! When we realize someone is toxic, its time to create space and often let them go.

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